Dear messy middle.

You are allowed to rest.

You are building your entire future one small step at a time.

Today you're learning software again.
You're stepping back into the parts of business that you actually love.

The back office.
The creating.
The systems.

The things that once brought you so much joy.

And yes… for a while those things also destroyed a piece of you.

But internally they didn't destroy you.

They just stored themselves inside your body.

So today I want you to remember the good parts.

Yes, those ones.

That one too.

I want you to remember how powerful you felt in those moments.

I want you to keep those memories on the storefront of your mind.

Remember what you built.

And remember that every part of what you built can now be added into your future.

Thursday brings joy.

But today you are allowed to rest.

Because you woke up at 2 AM.

And for the last 24 hours you have been creating.

And I want you to keep creating.

Keep speaking what people actually want.

Because baby girl…

This isn't just a coaching business.

This isn't just a story for the girls.

This is your passion.

You help men and women find their confidence.

You help them grow.

You help them turn their experiences into purpose.

Through digital art.

Through learning things that most people are too impatient to learn.

Through patience.

Through grace.

Through understanding.

When you look at yourself from your future self's perspective…

You can already see her.

220 pounds.

Muscle.

Strong.

Thin but thick.

Long red hair.

Natural blonde highlights.

Taking care of her curls because that's the hottest version of her.

Wearing jeans.

High heels.

A shirt that says exactly how she feels that day.

Because she wears her boundaries on her sleeves…

Instead of her emotions.

She nuzzles people.

She teaches them through their own experiences.

She listens to people impeccably.

Just like she's learning to speak impeccably.

She's accountable like no other.

And she's someone you absolutely want in your corner.

She's rare.

Her wisdom goes beyond her time.

That's why at 36…

People think you're 20.

But then they start talking to you and they say…

"There's no way she knows all this."

They think you must be 80 years old with the life you've lived.

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This is the part where healing stops being something you say…
and becomes something you live.